No such thing as constructive criticism.
Want to be a better person?
Learn to communicate an idea to another person without using criticism.
There is a large portion of society that believes in constructive criticism.
Im going to fill everyone in on a little secret-
PEOPLE ONLY LEARN TO FEEL BAD , AND TO AVOID FEELING WORSE.
This isnt teaching or helping anyone; its showing them they have the capacity to feel bad and that they might want to avoid it.
Before I hear I am giving “constructive criticism” on contructive criticism, I dont wish to imply everyone does this.
I think it got stuck in my craw when I was having a conversation about well-meaning people, trying to help another person to be safe or live well, but the method was one that couldnt impart any information because people dont learn while feeling bad.
All they can think about is how they feel, not what you tell them.
So many people have so many good intentions.
They go out of their way to be good people. Help another.
The idea here though is that you cant burn an idea into another person unless they happen to like being burned.
