Lor’s Blog

This is how Chocolate O’ Clock works -

As I move throughout my day, various things imprint upon my brain as “worthy of being noted” , and depending on which thought I give the most air-time to, I will post.

More often than not, I post asking myself ( and more importantly you ) questions with the philosophy that contemplation fertilizes the brain.

So its noon-time, and I want to post.

I asked my SO what he thinks i should post about. He says sex. Not a big surprise there, I think there are alot of people  that are glued to any topic involving sex.

What is it about the topic that has most of the world glued?

We want to know that we are normal.

We want to know that we are not the only people in the world that feel the way we do.

We want to know that we have worthiness and that we are special; and when we feel a little less than that we hope to hear something that will help us to be more worthy and more special. 

We use sex as our measure of value, we behave as if mastering this one topic will give us our health, our freedom, our income, our esteem.

Maybe for some it does.

There are always exceptions to every rule.

If I am going to speak honestly on the subject, I can only speak from the perspective of the importance of it in my life.

Its simply a symptom of connection.

It is simply a by-product of two people in the flow of loving life and using the other person as a physical means of feeling this joy.

For this reason it shouldnt be more important than breathing clean air, feeling sunshine on your face, or having a nice big piece of chocolate cake.

 Its only of importance to those who arent getting any of it,and to anyone who wants more of it, the quickest route I can tell is to find something that brings you joy, makes you smile, and melts your heart .

The very sight of that is the shortest distance between two people.